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Does your man grow grumpier as he gets older?

Does your man grow grumpier as he gets older? A friend shared with me over lunch table that her brother-in-law criticise a lot lately, very judgemental and angry. Daily conversations will be filled with petty argument. This is nothing new to me as I have one who reacted that way at home. Sometimes a good day can turn awfully bad due to very minor issue and if I tried arguing, I will get all kinds of crude remarks. So I choose to keep quiet with hope that things will get better and it does get better sometimes but not all the time. Women has PMS, men has their “WIND” too when they are stress with responsibilities in life.  I believe everyone has stress, some people handle it better but some don’t. It also depends on one’s life encounters. Imagine dealing with a stressful Hainanese man...

Wise words from Buddha

"Do not dwell in the past; do not dream of the future, concentrate your mind on the present moment." - Wise words from Buddha. I think of my future a lot. What can I do to be better in life? Sometimes this act makes me forget how lucky I am at present. 为什么我总是活在现在却想着未来 ? 这想法让我忘记我现在有多么的幸福。还是别想那么多 吧,珍惜现在所拥有的 !